Customizing Your Party (and a GIVEAWAY!)
Sometimes having a blog is the best thing ever. For example, when people let you try things out to review them, which is what today’s post is all about! The folks over at Customized Girl totally made my day a few weeks ago when they contacted me and invited me to try out some of their goods (for free, thanks CG!)! And the even better news is that Customized Girl will be offering a mind-blowingly generous giveaway here at The One! next week, so definitely keep checking back- lots of fabulous freebies on the way!!

Customized Girl, together with it’s sister site, Bridal Party Tees, has some incredible offerings if you’re considering making t shirts or keepsakes for your bridal party gifts, or if you are planning a bachelorette party. I’ve tried making T shirts through VistaPrint (which were certainly workable), but found CG’s products to be of a significantly higher quality for almost the same pricing and with more options. And just as importantly, the print quality was excellent!

I can’t share photos of my specific order just yet because it’s a surprise for someone special (but I promise I will down the road), but I’ll tell you this: I ordered a few different types of shirts- a men’s tee, ladies fitted tees, stretchy tanks and even a tote bag. Each and every piece that I ordered arrived looking exactly as I had ordered it, and the shipping was super fast! The fabrics are soft and comfy! The ink was vivid and definitely not going anywhere! And even though everything I ordered was a tad different, it all coordinated so well I couldn’t be happier!

One of the best things about these goodies is that they come in a variety of price points (unlike some of their competitors) and they always have some cute stuff in their sale section too, so you don’t need to bust out a bajillion dollars to have some fun. And the customizing software is super-user friendly. You can use their pre-made designs and change text, fonts, sizes, graphics, or you can start from scratch and make your own!

Aaaaand… it’s not just for girls. They have options for men and kids too, so you can buy gifts for the whole bridal party (even baby onesies)! All images in this post are, of course, from the websites, but you should definitely go check it out to see more!
Don’t forget to keep checking back in for the upcoming giveaway- it’s a great one!
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Bacheloretting, Just $4.74
So, it’s not news that I heart VistaPrint. But I recently learned that VP makes T shirts and totes, with prices starting at $4.74 (or in some cases, free, if you have the right coupon). And so I did some looking into it. Turns out these inexpensive tees are actually quite cute, and of course you can even upload your own design. Now, I love companies like Zazzle and Custom Ink too, not to mention the adorable custom finds you can get on Etsy or Wedding Chicks, but hey, times are tough. Sometimes you have to make the call to cut costs, and this is a good way to do so while still getting a product completely personalized (for instance, you could put each gal’s name on their own shirt; or make the bride’s a little extra special)!
Wouldn’t these be wonderful, affordable bridesmaids gifts? Or perfect for an upscale out of town bag? Personally, I always love wedding swag and have not stopped wearing my most recent wedding related item, a zippered hoodie from friend P’s bachelorette. In fact, I *may* or *may not* have recently designed some tees for two different events I’ll be a part of in the near future, and I’m so excited with how they came out! Here’s some of my favorite VP options!
And remember, if you order from VistaPrint, be sure to use Ebates so you can get cash back too!! 





Oh yeah, and I almost forgot, they make tote bags and hats too. What designs are your favorite?
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From Project Runway to Project Wedding
Who loves watching Project Runway?! Ohhh me me me!! If you watched last season, then you know of Carol Hannah- she made the final three and in my personal opinion, should have won… she is a-maaaaz-ing. And guess what else? She now has a live etsy store AND a bridal etsy store! With great fashion finds if you’re looking for wedding attire- either as a bride, bridesmaid, or simply a guest. And in a whole host of great colors. I know, I’ve mentioned all this before. But it is too awesome not to talk about again.
Here are some of my favorites. All images are from Carol Hannah’s etsy store- go check them out in person for more information!

Calhoun Street dress

Hasell Street gown

Queen Street dress

Spring Street short dress- so cute!

Pinckney dress

And last but not least, the Wentworth Street gown... LOVE LOVE LOVE!
What do we think ladies? Love a lot or love the most?!
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Update on Gilt Groupe’s Wedding Weekend
If you read The One! already, then you know from yesterday’s post that Gilt Groupe has collaborated with Martha Stewart weddings (my all-time favorites, working together! yesssssss) to bring you an incredible sale this weekend- it’s called Wedding Weekend, and I think it’s a definite must-see for anyone who loves weddings! But today I am extra excited because I have even more goodness for you. Yes, it’s true, we scored PREVIEWS of some of the stunning gowns (and shoes!) you can find at the sale, straight from the source! Thanks to the fine folks over at Gilt for sending these to us!! Grab a tissue because you’re about to drool… and sign up for Gilt today, if you haven’t already, so you’ll be ready on March 12 when the sale starts!!

Gown by Carolina Herrera: Original Retail: $5790, Gilt: $1999

Carolina back view

Carolina overlay (sigh!)

Another perfect gown from Carolina Herrera: Original Retail: $4990, Gilt: $1599

Carolina back view

Carolina detail

From Thread Made To Order, Silk Faille Strapless Notched Bust Liddy Dress: Original Retail: $305, Gilt: $228.75

Thread back view

Thread detail

Vera Wang Lavender Label, Bias Satin Draped Neckline Gown: Original Retail: $655.50, Gilt: $196.65

Vera back view

Vera detail (how I love thee)

The icing on the cake! Sergio Rossi: Original Retail: $770, Gilt: $128

Sergio looks good coming or going

This shot makes me so psyched for summer shoes again!
What other cyber-sales have you visited for wedding deals? Or non-wedding deals for that matter? After all, a girl doesn’t have to wait for her wedding to get glam!
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Sale Alert: Gilt Groupe Partners with Martha!

I have excellent news for you today if you are planning a wedding and have a “champagne taste but beer budget” problem (or just like a good bargain). Gilt Groupe is partnering with Martha Stewart Weddings this weekend, March 12-14, starting at noon ET! I have been a big fan of Gilt Groupe for a while now, because I always score great deals there. But now, gowns by designers like Carolina Herrera and Alexander McQueen will also be for sale there… not to mention bridesmaids dresses from Amasale and Vera Wang Lavender! If only I had known about this sale a year ago! Ah well, my loss is your gain! I would love to hear if any of you score a great find at this sale! If you’re not a member of Gilt already, click here to sign up- even if you’re not looking for wedding duds, you’re likely to score some great deals!
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Matching ‘Maids, Not Poor ‘Maids
It is my long-standing personal opinion that when it comes to selecting a bridesmaid dress, anything goes if you are the bride- you get what you want and your girls will wear it because they love you. But shoes are a slightly different story. Maybe it’s because they’re more likely than the dresses to be worn twice. In any event, it’s my personal belief that the nicest way to do bridesmaid shoes is to either (a) tell people a color (such as silver or black) and let them choose their own, or (b) pick a really inexpensive shoe. I think either approach builds goodwill among the ladies… and I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, woe to the girl with a load of unhappy bridesmaids on her hands!
For example, my dear friend R. recently chose shoes to go with our navy blue Jenny Yoo bridesmaids dresses. The dresses are super swank, but the shoes are cheap n’ chic. From none other than Lela Rose for Payless!! I heart these shoes. And I can vouch that they look even better in person, if that is possible!
But of course you don’t have to limit yourself to just Payless. Check out these hot pink lovelies from, yes, Target!
And don’t forget the junior’s stores. Charlotte Russe, for example, carries this great shoe in teal, gray and black, and I am loving the bling!
And these peacock flats are to die for. Am I right?
Even Baker’s has some cute options (and I have’t shopped there since I was 14).
And don’t forget chains like DSW, TJ Maxx and Marshall’s either. Just make sure you buy fast – they carry limited quantities- so your ladies aren’t left shoeless!
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Got Mah Hairs Did
On our wedding day, I woke bright and early (due to an unfortunately noisy heating unit in my hotel room) and excitedly threw on my special “getting ready outfit”- a juicy couture track suit (got it on sale of course, thanks Bloomingdale’s!) with a “Bride” tank top I’d scored on sale from the Wedding Chicks in my favorite color- pink! Armed with my most comfortable duds, I met up with my ladies and got ready to get my hair and makeup done!
For hair and makeup, I told the ladies that I would be getting myself made up at Panico salon in Oradell, NJ. I told the girls they could do their own hair and makeup or join me- and most of the bridesmaids did. Those who didn’t actually had hair that was easy to style, so I was perfectly content to let folks choose for themselves, and in the end everyone looked lovely!
We got to Panico at 9 am and I was there until a little after noon- so yes, it was a long morning. But as you can see, it was fun girl time! One lesson I did learn in the process, however, was that I should have built in more time. We had a very tight schedule, and because we didn’t stick to it very well, I ended up feeling rushed when I got dressed. Did it matter? Not really, no– but if you’re planning your wedding, take note!
The most important thing was that we all bonded, and we all really loved the way we looked when we walked out of there. You’ll see even more once I start posting the recaps with pro pics, but suffice it to say, Panico rocked it out!
Pre-'Do
Taming my mane into submission
Look how cute my girls are, even pre-polish!
Makeup time!
We were all smiles as our looks came together
A couple of final poses before we were on our way!
And how did we get here? Checking In; Practice Makes Perfect: The Rehearsal!; The Rehearsal Dinner!; The Rehearsal Dinner Slide Show; Girls Gone Wild!
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Cute Bridesmaids Dresses, Halleluiah! (part II)
Today I want to share with you the cute assortment of dresses chosen by stepsister S. for her August garden themed wedding! These dresses are floaty and lovely in buttercup yellow (I predict this will look great with a tan) and all are tea length. The dresses are all from Dessy Group, so they’re pretty easy to find. And can I just take a moment to say THANK YOU to S. and D. for letting me choose my own dress?! I always love a group of matching girls, but I am equally in love with this trend of coordinating-instead-of-matching and I’m psyched to be the beneficiary of it!
Ok so again, we need your help. Shoe suggestions please?! Methinks yellow shoes would be too much of a good thing (and a throwback to the 1980’s), but maybe with the right yellow? And what do you all think of orange shoes (orange is the other wedding color, think: sherbet not traffic cone). Or would you go with metallic? Something else? Comments with links to affordable suggestions will be given extra credit!

6566- in the buttercup shade we'll all be rocking (this style is designated for the MOH)

6537

6518

6506

6505

2750

2058- I didn't even have to try this on to know it was "the one" for me!
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Cute Bridesmaids Dresses, Halleluiah! (part I)
Yesterday I spoke about my uncertainty about whether I love or don’t love Twobirds Bridesmaids dresses. Well today I’m going to share with you some bridesmaids dresses I DO think are cute! FSIL D. has chosen these dresses in apple, from David’s Bridal, for her group of girls. I really like these dresses because (1) the color apple red is just adorable and will look so cute in a cocktail length, (2) these already reasonably priced dresses are all $20 off because she got her own lovely gown there, (3) they are made of cotton (thank the heavens above) and (4) since there’s a David’s pretty much everywhere, its easy for us ‘maids who live all over the United States to go try them out. Pretty nice eh?
So here’s where you come in. What kind of shoes would you pair with these dresses? D. is thinking about black open-toed shoes or strappy silver. I personally think well-chosen shoes of either style would look nice. What do you think?

Davd's 83312 (this looks like it would be flattering on lots of shapes, and I love the sweetheart neckline)

David's 83690 (I love that this is a little different!)

David's F13818 (I'm 99% sure this will be the one I order- dare I say rewearable?!)

David's F13695 (adorable pockets!)
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Hot or Not? Two Birds Dresses
I’m wondering if anyone else has thoughts on this topic because I think I do (but I’m still not sure). Two birds Bridesmaid’s dresses. Have you heard of them? One dress that can be tied in a variety of ways. The fabrics and colors are nice, and they are one-size fits all, no alterations required. In theory they are rewearable. And if you live in the NY area, one of their employees will come help your girls put them on for the wedding, so that they look their best. But they’re pricey ($270 for short, $290 for long).
I’ll be honest, I’m not madly in love with these dresses but I can see the appeal of choosing a dress that travels well and can be customized so extensively. But… I bet that even though they say you don’t need alterations, I’d probably want to have mine hemmed because I’m short, and I’m not convinced that these look so great on ladies who aren’t models or girls who are well-endowed (these dresses look like they lend themselves to sagging). I mean sure, you put a gorgeous tall 20 year old in this and it will look hot. But what about a size 16 30-something? Is that just cruel?
YOU be the judge. Hot? Or not?? (click on images for sources)

- From twobird’s website
By the way if you love the look but prefer a better price point, check out the Victoria’s Secret version of this dress. It’s not the same, but its a good alternative.
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